Published On: Mon, Jan 20th, 2014

Waking Up A Stranger

I remember waking Robina1up one day and forgetting who I was.  After the birth of my three sons, now ages 9, 7 and 5, I became this self-imposed “supermum”.  I quit my job of being a Registered Nurse to stay home to raise my boys.  I had a hard time letting anyone babysit my kids and was very protective of them from the get go!

I love everything about being a mum.  I live for my boys and always knew the choice I made to leave my profession and become a stay at home mum (I prefer the term “Domestic Diva”) was the best decision I ever made.  I got to witness every milestone my boys hit, and also witnessed every change in their personas as the years went by.

One day when I was walking up a small flight of stairs I realised that I was out of breath.  This was a turning point for me. I remember thinking “How did I get here?” When did I stop caring about my health? I realised that something needed to change; I needed to find myself again.

When I looked in the mirror, I no longer recognised my reflection.  I was overweight, overindulgent in junk food, and lived in lululemon clothing because nothing else fit me.  Where did the athletic, fit, high school athlete go?  I became this unconfident, insecure woman, who hid behind the role of motherhood, and was scared to take time to invest in my own life.

I joined a local mummy fitness group to get more social and healthy.   I worked hard to lose the weight and had great success doing so through breastfeeding, overtraining (working out way too much), and under eating (and eating Robina2junk food).  I was consuming a lot of veggies, and protein but never enough carbs.  I started shedding the weight (60+ lbs. for every child due to a shortened cervix which put me on bed rest from 7 months on) but also noticed that I was cranky (because I wasn’t eating properly), and would feel “guilty” if I didn’t indulge in my new guilty pleasure of working out.  Working out became my “me” time and my solitude, and I had a hard time giving it up.

I remember a lot changing when the boys all started full time school. I felt lonely, and almost like I wasn’t needed- so I decided that I needed to reinvent myself.  My love for health and fitness grew so I embarked on becoming a personal trainer.  Having the difficult pregnancies and gaining so much weight really helped me strive to find a balance between nutrition and fitness. I struggled for years to find that balance but it wasn’t until I decided to really take my fitness to the next level and compete did I really learn the key.

I realised the importance of diet, and the balance between life and health.  I learned that my health does not only take place in the walls of a gym but more importantly when I leave the gym.  Rest, happiness and stress management also play a key role.  I started to feel alive again and also knew that this newfound energy that I had was also great for our family life.  I love that my boys watch me workout and want to be a part of it.

I am not only working on my own health but also instilling the importance of health and fitness in my boys while living my life with passion.

By Robina Abramson 2014
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Robina is a mother of three who found herself on a downward spiral. This story is about how she overcame the hurdles many of us mummies face, but choose to put it into the too hard basket. Her story is inspirational.


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